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LEOPOLD
JOSEPH KOZIOL (1937-2007)
EARLIER THIS
YEAR, on 30 January 2007, my father, Leopold Joseph Koziol passed
on from this mortal world to another place we sometimes call heaven.
The following is a biography of my father that I wrote at the time
of his tangi, which was held at our family home on a hot, bright,
crisp and clear February day in Nuhaka:
"OUR
DAD"
Biography
by Leo Koziol Jr. (Palo)
Our dad Leopold
Joseph Koziol was born in Pittsfield, Massachusetts, on 13 February
1937, to parents Julian & Julia Koziol. Dad's elder brothers are
Frank and Alex, elder sister Veronica, younger brother Joseph and
younger sister Helen.
Dad's brother
Julian Jr. died in a tragic cot death when he was just a baby. All
Dad's brothers and sisters still live today in Pittsfield and environs
with their children and grandchildren. Dad was raised in a staunch
Polish Catholic family in Pittsfield, a New England "company town"
where everyone worked at the big General Electric plant.
Dad grew up
in post-War America, with life revolving around the Family, the
Church, the Polish Community Centre and the Boys Club. Dad's favourite
hobby was model airplanes. dad remembers the first broadcast of
TV live from New York at the Boys Club and planes flying over the
town heading off to WWII.
Dad met Mum
in Los Angeles after venturing forth into the world in his late
teens, in 1950s US of A. Dad lived in Boston for a while, apprenticing
at the then-new Sheraton Hotel chain. But Dad didn't want to be
stuck in an office, so he bought a car and ventured forth on 'Route
66' to the promised land of California.
Dad worked in
telephones in Los Angeles, installing phones for the rich and famous
of Hollywood, including 'Policewoman' Angie Dickinson.
Dad met Mum
soon after when she was working at a Diner on Santa Monica Boulevard
in 1960. Mum recalls Dad asking "Are you a Ma-ori from New Zealand?"
Mum was duly impressed, and they headed out to a Beat Cafe in Venice
Beach. One
year later my sister Jeanine (1962) was born and Philip soon after
(1964).
Mum describes
Dad as her "Tall, handsome Polish 'Catholic' solider boy who followed
her to Utah and whom she followed to California in 1961 where they
started their family."
Mum and Dad
had an adventurous life in America in the 1960s. Mum would fly off
to Hawaii to perform the Flaming Poi in Waikiki. Dad would take
Mum and the kids for numerous road trips across the country, much
to Mum's chagrin when Dad would bring his best friend along or when
they'd be sleeping under the stars in the High Sierras.
Mum got pregnant
with me in 1968, and decided she wanted to come home to Nuhaka.
Here, my parents
recollections of what happened somewhat differ. Mum said she'd decided
to go, whether Dad liked it or not. Dad, on the other hand, always
told me it was all part of his grand plan to come and live here
in Nuhaka Paradise, ever since he spotted kiwi-land in the back
page of his Atlas in Catholic Boy's School.
My recollection
of our Nuhaka family life in the 1970s was a beautiful always sunny
place with a strong extended family life (Nanny & Pop, Aunties &
Uncles, millions of Cousins) and a close-knit whanau who never went
wanting. Jeanine & Phil adjusted to life in "Godzone" and little
Leo (me!) grew up a kiwi kid after flying here in Mum's puku.
Dad was the
Station Master of Nuhaka, and soon cut a character in the village.
The station was busy, and Dad was an icon in black t-shirt, black
peak cap and cup of coffee, always black. Dad always had a wisecrack,
his Yankee accent still echoes over the station yard.
We all grew
up fast, with Jeanine marrying John in 1983 and giving birth to
Ariki (1984) soon after. Their other children are Pita (1988) and
Patrick (1996). Phil went off to the army, I went off to University.
While at Uni, my son Jordan was born (1990), his Mum Anjelique Repia.
Both Phil and
I have travelled to see Dad's family in Pittsfield to much love
and hospitality, Phil meeting with Grandma "Bapci". Dad doted on
all his grandchildren, Jordan was "Whangai" with Mum and Dad when
I came home from the USA, when Jordan was 11.
I will always
treasure the time I spent with dad when I came home in 2001. We
would talk and talk all manner of things, like I think we always
did when I was one of the "little ones".
Four years ago,
Dad was hit by a stroke, which affected him greatly, but he soldiered
on and took on a new personality in life ("Say Something Nice!").
My Dad had a
unique view of the world, and I will always treasure his gift of
an enquiring mind, always curious, always something new to learn
and experience. Dad had an adventurous spirit, always drifting off
on a new path, but he also made sure we were a family that felt
secure and provided for, in the good times and in the bad times,
we made it through. Dad, you will be sorely missed by us all, and
your spirit lives on in the inspiration of your life that now is
forever in our hearts.
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Leopold Joseph
Koziol 13 February 1937 - 30 January 2007
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